Betrayal or Koinonea?
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Where is Koinonea?
by Dr. Kluane Spake
BETRAYAL. Has it happened to you?
When you experience betrayal - it can become a violent crisis of identity. Betrayal and rejection can be overwhelming and greatly disappointing.
When betrayal happens, what do you trust? Who do you trust?
Do you wonder why it happened to you?
Do you wonder where you have failed?
Do you think wonder what to do next?
Do you hide, expecting it to happen again?
For many years as a Christian, my expectations were built on what people thought. How they reacted to me. What they did in relationship to me. It seemed that the more I tried to avoid betrayal, the more it happened. Thick heaviness in my mind spoke that all my life and hopes were over - that I could not go on.
I just couldn't believe how mean some Christians were. I'd throw my life down to serve them, and then they would come and seemingly try to destroy me. The further into ministry I went, the greater the people problems loomed.
Their mean words started to shape my responses and my expectations. My identity became built on disappointments and sorrow over what other believers had chosen to do or say. My heart was revealed.
People's opinions were more important than that of what God said for me to do. I was becoming a "people pleaser." Walking on eggshells trying to make people happy.
Here I had been trying to create unity, love, koininea, and faithfulness in relationships - and what I really created was a dependency upon people's approval.
Then, one day, while I was crying at the bathroom sink and washing my face, the Lord spoke to me. That voice was so loud that I ran around the house to see if someone had come inside. The voice of the Lord said, "YOU are acceptable to Me." Those words were revelation. These five words totally changed my life.
God accepts me today - in spite of my faults and shortcomings. He sees the end from the beginning. He pulls me into my destiny - where He is at the finished place.
What? I don't need to make them happy? I don't need them to love every thing I do? It's okay for them to make choices.
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Betrayal immediately shows you where your trust is!
Moses had this problem leading Israel. They complained at ever step. God gave them water from a rock and they grumbled. There was manna from heaven and they complained - they just wanted to die in captivity instead of being freely following with Moses (Ex. 16-17). The big problem was that Moses allowed their problems to become his - and it was for this reason that he didn't succeed in bringing them into the Promised Land.
Maybe you have experienced betrayal... it happens everywhere. In fact, Jesus said that betrayal was a sign of the end times. We can't keep betrayal from happening. Jesus was betrayed countless times.
The Good News is that we can learn to ride above betrayal. We can begin to find the Lord arising out of the midst of distress. We see Him take us high above the issues of the moment. My friend... establish your identity in the Lord. He is alive in you to bring healing. You don't need to keep experiencing the pain of rejection and betrayal.
Jesus was despised and rejected FOR US (Is. 53:3). Our rejection was paid for at the cross. Just like He was crucified for our sins and we are now forgiven and free, He was crucified for our rejection and betrayal. For us to take back what He bore FOR US negates the work of the cross.
The Father turned His back while His Son hung on the cross. Jesus asked, "Why, have You forsaken me?" Then, He said, "It is finished." The ultimate rejection was finished. Jesus experienced the very worst rejection -- and He gave His life that we would not have to experience rejection. He died to give us LIFE abundantly.
Jesus says that He will never leave us and never forsake us. We will never be forsaken by Him. When Jesus said, "It is finished," He meant it. He accomplished all things for us that pertain to life and Godliness. Jesus totally took our rejection and betrayal.
Come to the place of Melchizedek empowerment. Look again and see the Glory of the Lord arise in each place of disappointment and betrayal. You are acceptable to Him.
Closing
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Disappointments are all a part of life. They help to shape us into who we are. I also believe the Lord uses them to guide us to where he wants us. I see in your case it is most likely to where you will depend upon Him and Him alone.
There are governors and tutors over the children and I believe betrayal may be one of those. A good hub with good information. Thank you for sharing.
One more thing, don't let past betrayals keep you from building new relationships with people.
Great article -
yes, He is our hiding place
Recently reminded again of how BETRAYAL can rock your world in the most
aweful way...I have learned that BETRAYAL can be a tutor in life...
Learn from it, continue to serve GOD, remain humble, and conitnue
to Love as Jesus has done for us...
My friend was facing foreclosure of his home and he was that a lady by the name of Paulette Hibbert would be able to help him, to make a long story short, she claimed she started the process of helping to do a short sale on my friend's home, my friend fould someone to buy it with the understanding that in a year his friend would sign it back over to him, Paulette instead of letting my friend, friend buy the house she tried to get a loan for purchase the house, the mortgage company told my friend that is what the real estate lady was trying to do, anyway that did not go through, and the loan that my friend friend got to buy the house ran out, so the deal did not go through, when my friend contacted Paulette she denied everything. Jesus, can someone be so evil as this Paulette Hibbert?
This women is a fraud and I know who she is as many people have lost their homes because of her deceptive practice. Have your friend report her to the Rockland County,NY DA Office.I have a friend who brought charges against Paulette and won.It is just a matter of time before she loses her real estate and brokers license and lands in jail as she has a history of fradulant mortgage transactions in NY, FL, Mass,KY etc.That is why she is in hiding under her new AKA and business LLC. Remember "THERE IS A DAY OF JUDGEMENT FOR US ALL". God Bless
Andrea,
Love to talk to you about this - do you have a way I could contact you - I almost had the same problem
Does anyone have her licensing info? I was approached by her recently and want to know more...
Google her under Paulette Gabbidon, one of her multiple names. She's been arrested.
All evil doers shall burn in hell. I hope she stays in jail for the rest of her life. Evil bitch.
She is not in jail she lives now in Quincy MA and she is still committing fraud.
google paulette gabbidon. you will see the article of 38 were busted by the FBI for mortgage fraud. she, her ex-boyfriend, and mother-in-law were busted on 5 counts of bank fraud.
Hey CHief....whats her address,maybe she needs a new Man.Dammm, that B got more ex husbands/AKA than I got draws.Lets do a recount start with Hibbert,Olds,ROLLINS,GABBIDON,MAROTTA?,WEBB,LEWIS AND CAN'T FORGET CHRISTIAN.DID WE FORGET ANYONE OF YOU BRO's IN CYBERLAND.MAYBE WE NEED TO PUT AN AD IN THE QUINCY PAPER FOR UNACCOUNTED HUSBANDS AND VICTIMS OF THEIR FRAUD
I got introduced to her through some friends in the community I talked to her once and from the first 2 min I knew she is fake, The thing is this woman will not do these things without crooked lawyers, she is dealing with a lawyer called Stanley Freedman and he is doing all the crooked things for her, people seriously this woman must be stopped I heard that she got a mortgage for 420,000.00 for a women that clean homes and barely make ends meet, she basically fabricated W-2 forms and bank statements. If anyone is interested here is her new company website
Young stud , this is no joke. Chiefor1 and Andrea can WE MEET...I REALLY NEED HELP...fINANCIALLY SHE RIPPED US OFF IN EXCHANGE FOR A PROPERTY. I LIVE IN SPRING VALLEY,NY....GIVE ME A TIME ,DATE,EMAIL,LOCATION..ANYTHING,I JUST NEED SOMEONE WHO CAN FEED US AS MUCH INFO AS POSSIBLE....
MARIA,
All what I know that she currently lives in 10 Highpoint Circle, Quincy MA under the name of Paulette Christian or Hibbert(not sure which).
someone sent me this article and I know paulette personnaly first let me say this lady has never cost anyone there home and this I know for a fact i've recommended over 100 people to her and they all have their homes to this day. I myself owns propeties that I brought from her I am in child care so what does that mean she fabricated documents for me too, I make over 100k per year look it up it's public record.
As for
Andrea- I know this person that you speak about why would she want his drug infested house she was not the real estate broker on the file she was the person that was recommended to him by his cousin, the real estate broker on the file was his baby's mother so ask her about trying to buy his drug infested house, he's no angel post his criminal record so the world can see it for themselve. And he bought that house thru another mortgage person lived there for all this time selling drugs and only made a few mortgage payments that was not the first time his house was in foreclosure that's also public record. And also when paulette found out that he was trying to use a person who wolks for the MTA to get the mortgage and the person did not qualify that she cancelled his file. WE HAVE ALL THE PAPER WORK.
Theresa I know you personally and you worked at a credit union in spring valley for years when you met paulette you tried to leave there and go and work for her after you got fired from the credit union and after paulette spoke to the current manager he told her that you were committing fraud so they let you go, she did do a home equity on your home then you stated showing up at her office every morning until she told you that she couldn't hire you and then you got pissed, you then went to your so called friend and teamed up with her and the stupid money case brought against her was dropped I was with her in court, but tell the world that your so called friend's brother and her is now in jail he was an attorney and was incarserated for mortgage fraud, theft, and signing a judges signature, I have the aritcle to attach ms victim, also that your so called friend was the one that convinced her brother to do these fraudulent loans and put the properties under a llc that she formed under daughter's name, your so called friend let her own brother carry the wait for that, and everyone in rockland county including her entire family knows and and speaks ill of her, tell the world that her brother even called paulette to apologise to her for what his own sister made him to her. This is all public info.
Chief1 look her up in the new york state dept. she is licensed. and has been for the past 7 years. As for meeting with you 2 weeks ago you are a liar because she is not even in the morgage business anymore if you met her 2 weeks ago you would know that, as for getting a woman approved that does cleaning please let me ask you this you idiot where was the house? what's the womans income? are you saying that this woman because she does clearing can't qualify for a mortgage? Also you can look anywhere you want to i guarantee paulette did not do any mortgage for anyone in the past at least 2 years. Go ahead put an add in the quincy paper, she was married previously now that against the law.
All of you need to get a life and feel free to email me so I can take on each and everyone of you paulette doesn't I will, ebonyt@hotmail.com GET AT ME, i'm very close to paulette so I have all your numbers please. As for the charges against her well wait and see the outcome of those.
You know what's funny when you all go and see these mortgage people and give them your information and then things don't work out why dont you all take responsiblity and stop blaming people for you own messes, YOU DIDN'T PAY YOUR MORTGAGE, YOU LIED ABOUT YOUR INCOME ETC. YOU MOVED INTO THAT HOUSE, NO ONE PICKED YOU UP AND MOVED YOU IN THERE, YOU SIGNED DOCUMENTS AND WAS EXPLAINED THEM NOT BY THE MORTGAGE BROKERS BUT BY LEGAL ATTORNEY, YOU CHOSE THE HOUSE SO PLEASE TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS.
By observation, a child can identify Ebony is none other than Paulette, fraudette as we call her. Riddle me this Ebony, it's funny how you know so much of Paulette's business, you've touched base on every issue on this blog. You could never clean up the lies, trickery or fraud that you've put fourth on innocent people. Paulette dummy, you realize you leave electronic and paper trail behind your every move? Do you realize you can't fool the FBI, as much knowledge you have you've got to be the stupidest person who is about to serve your sentence. You continually point the finger at other people and never take responsibility for your actions, don't you have children? Lead by example. You are a disgrace to the Muslim culture. You ate giving us a bad name. We can't change our name like you do so, every time you get caught up in your web of deceit. You can't explain why you stole money from your clients while pretending to be their attorney. You promised a fellow Muslim brother that due to his credentials he was able to obtain a mortgage on this multi-thousand dollar property in Canton, you keep telling him he needs to reach deeper in his pockets to close the deal. Are you gathering your restitution money (1 Mil) that you need to pay back? This woman proclaims her innocence even caught red-handed. She'll tell you she's never been in trouble but was arrested in Dedham, MA after trying to leave the scene of an accident. She has no driver's license in MA and was arrested for driving without. The old Black Mercedes Benz she drives around isn't in her name. She dealing as a broker but through WellsFargo in CT, through her connect who is doing her leg work to make it appear as if she's just dropped everything. She's using anyone she can before she does her time in NY. I'd be lying if I said everything she has done was wrong, but after you get caught repeatedly abusing your rights as a broker, you should be banished from the industry. I believe people learn their lessons but she has not for she is in MA scamming more and more people out of their dreams and hard earned money. How does she sleep at night? She just turned 40 years sold, had three warrants for her arrest out of Newburyport District Court and no stranger to the legal system. Her case is about done and so is she. Happy sailing. You must think anyone on here is an idiot like yourself, that's why you thought you could fool people for so long. You have everyone on here phone number of course you do EBONY aka Paulette Webb, Paulette Gabbidon, BKA Paulette Christian. What a last name you picked this time around, should be Paulette Sinister
I am "Ebony Michelle " and I have read from beginning to end of this blog. I don't know who is writing under my name, but please stop! Paulette is a friend and I do agree with something said under my name, but I am not the one writing. Like my mother always said, "It will all come out in the wash"! At this point whatever charges she is faced with she will have to answer to them and all this negativity is such a waste of energy. Find something better to do and leave me out of it!!!!!!!!!
I am "Ebony Michelle " and I have read from beginning to end of this blog. I don't know who is writing under my name, but please stop! Paulette is a friend and I do agree with something said under my name, but I am not the one writing. Like my mother always said, "It will all come out in the wash"! At this point whatever charges she is faced with she will have to answer to them and all this negativity is such a waste of energy. Find something better to do and leave me out of it!!!!!!!!!
To Darlene Bishop, if you continue to get me involved in this "Madness", I will seek legal action you. How dare you tell a young man from Spring Valley I was on this blog talking about him. The above comments are not mine and I just found this site Sept. 17,10 @4pm. Whomever is writing under my name, I am very upset. I have no involvement and you should of share the whole page since your sharing and starting trouble!!!!! Trust me Darlene, mean want I say. Let him call me again about your mess!!!!
Paulette is a straight fraud and everyone knows this. I met her from a mutual friend about 4 years ago, God is good because my spirit didn't vibe with her at all. I saw right through the nice cars, house and the terrible weave. Thank God for the spirit of discernment! Greed.. Greed. I feel bad for her children, must be terrible to have such a wicked Mother.
Well to each is to own. If you're hunting for her, Paulette you can find her at Bedford Hills Correctional Facility for the next 7 years, maybe 4 if she gets off for good behavior.
I met this woman 3 years ago in N.Y, and trust me when I met her her hustle lasted for about 1 minute on myself and the party I was with. She embarrased herself by lying right away building herself up to be this person, and what made matters more amusing at the time is that she said she worked for a company that my friend actually owned and later that evening when I asked him, said he never heard of her or even met her.
The reason I found this blog is because I just came across the FBI district court release for the charges against this woman and felt to share my two cents worth with the victims she has abused.
I have come across this woman,Paulette Christian, Paulette Gabbidon, Paulette Hibbert, Alliyah Hibbert, Paulette Lewis, etc.... and I must say its hard to determine the most serious of all the problems she has, but I would say first and foremost she is a pathologicial liar, a theif, a criminal a fraud and I also believe she is bi polar, just to name a few.
Paulette is a feeder/or a mooch/fake/con artist, so many names.Her hustle is this: she finds innocent victims, tries to buy into thier lives by promising them things normally they wouldnt think of, building herself up to be this rich successful business tycoon, who has more money than she knows what to do with. And ladies, if your married, this knowing that she has no heart, would have no problem trying to wreck your home. But in reality she is nohting has always been nothing and will always be nothing, and anything she ever did have was stolen, or fraudulenlty obtained.
She is in context to a bad disease, if you let the disease in, she slowly spreads her sickness, the more your around her the more sick you can become from her, by way of making you fall for her traps of false promises.
Its rather sad actually when you think of it, she has no one in this entire world who would actually stand up and say a good or positive thing about her, because every person she comes across, she ends up abusing some how, either by her scamming for money, or making them believe a whole webb of lies. Or talking bad about them to anyone who will listen. She likes to corrupt good friendships and she will lie to your face and then in facing her lie, she will bold face tell you she never did anything wrong. This is sick, confronting her is deemed pointless because every word out of her mouth is a lie so shes ready to take you on with any thing you have to say, and will defend with just anohter lie, so to be frank with all of you trying to confront this criminal is pointless, just walk away, and leave her to her. Just like everyone else who enters her sick world, its only short term. I promise you that.
And my heart goes out to all of you who have been victimized by this woman. But to give you some type of hope and light, I will tell you this, she is too stupid to be able to continue. All of you will see your justice when this woman is put away, she can only hide for so long, until they catch up with her, and from what the news says, the FBI is on her trail.
Posing as an attorney, walking into a bank to obtain fake documents to steal money, can only portray a woman who has never had a day of peace in her life, from what I understand she cliams she is a muslim, and I tell you this, that the little I know of the religion of Islam, this woman is nothing compared to the muslims I know and respect. She actually is a disgrace to the religion and its muslims.
Paulette, you really should be ashamed of yourself, but unfortunately someone like you will never admit thier faults becuase of the illness you have. I really think that you one day will realize how stupid you really are, when your sitting in your jail cell, having time to reflect of what got you there. But even then, knowing you, and knowing how you terrorize peoples lives, I dont think it would phase you to even stop, becuase this is all you know.
I really feel bad, knowing after reading these blogs that you have children, its a shame really, to know that you are allowed to have children in your care. Honestly, I hope that they dont know the type of mother they have.
Just a small reminder Paulette, Alliyah or what ever you name is, 1 out of two people you meet are not as stupid as you think, its not hard to see through your lies, becuase of your lack of knowledge, you come on way to strong, making yourself out to be a millionaire when you dont even have $20.00 dollars to your name, is pretty easy to see.
I really do feel sorry for you, becuase every person that you have or will come across will end up kicking you out of thier lives at some point, no one will ever trust you, or if they do eventually will show you the door, because your just a really ignorant human.
I hope you get whats comeing to you, and hope that the people you effected which Im sure is way more then just in this blog will see thier restiution some day.
For any future victims who are smart enough to google this fraud, trust all these people with what they say and run the other way from her. She is no good, and no good will ever come from her. And if you do decide to fall for her trap then your outcome is clear.
My condolences to you all and to Paulette your future looks dim.
I am one of the investigators on this case. Anyone who believes they are a victim of this fraud should contact me at the United States Attorney's Office @ 914 993-1900. If I am unavailable please leave a message with Jake Burke @ 914 993-1948.
Wow! Notthatstupid, well said. I have never known that someone could be so wicked. I applauded the great work of all the investigaters who saved the rest of us from this serpent. I am so sorry and my heart goes to to all whose lives became a nightmare because of this heartless monster. I assure you all that justice will serve. God Bless America. This woman is heartless. Do you all know that she has a twin sister. her sister is nothing like her totally different for a twin. Well one was a millionaire and the other only worked a nine to five job. Her sister is also a victim because of her. She never like her sister, always talk a lot of bad stuff about her. But I think it is a grudge. The sister is more beautiful person inside and out and has a good heart and of course she does not wear ugly looking weaves. I am appealing to all of you out there who are victims to let the FBI know everthing. Please do not be afraid or embarass to call them. Please help them to put this monster away from society. Putting her away will be a healing process for everyone who she hurts.
Just an FYI to everyone out there she goes by Paulette Christian in Quincy, and she is telling people she is a real estate agent and mortgage broker.
She goes by Paulette Christian and her lawyer is Stanley Freedman, be careful
Wow....
Lol. This should be called the Paulette forum. Its surprising how much people know about her. I knew her as well as both of her sisters and there husbands. I know Darleen aka big read, (hello Darleen) i know of Ebony.... i was also there when Theresa came to Require road, after she was fired from the credit union. I felt bad for her. I believe she had an adjustable mtg that she couldn't afford... All victims of paulette's ruthless-ness. I did what i could to distance myself from her, but it still infected my core. I couldn't understand how a person could be so evil and deceptive. She told me that she had a guy in the NY banking commission that would let her know when anything of concern was heading her way. Notthatstupid has summed her up pretty well. She done stupid and detrimental things but don't be fooled, she's no slacker. Im sure your paying attention paulette.
I was asked to read this article by one of your concerned citizen's it's a miracle how much bullshit someone can place on the interest about someone else and ruin their reputation. I do know paulette personally i've done a ton a business with and and have never ever thought or go defrauded by her, all my clients went to her and called me about this article honestly all of you need to get a life because you are all wrong for this all you all are stating is about m eeting her and what you thing she may have done show me the proof please, also remember the FBI has indicted her they have not found her guilty of anything. Good luck Paulette i'm even so insulted to be reading this stuff about you I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
P.S as for her sister the beautiful person I know her personally ask her who bought her vehicles over the years Paulette given her money hunderds of thousands of dollars Paulette this i know for a fact, her sister bankrupty 2 ex husband Patrick and Reynald and left them now for a married man oops she a christian as well a drunk christian who goes to her brother's house whos a functioning alcholic and drink with him and his family please i'm very very close to this family and these women there is much more to come. Paulete you fight girl don't let them win. Your a very good person. SCREW THEM ALL.
I don't think anyone cares about your sisters personal life. what about all the victims. What we all care about is how are they going to be compensated and get their lives back together. We are waiting for the day when we see your sorry ass shipped off to jail , or deported back to Jamaica. Remember you are not a US citizen. We still have faith in the FBI, we know for a fact that they are working very hard to keep you away from society. And S.W. prayer will not help too many tears shed from innocent victims. I hope the FBI come after you. Seems you have lot of information for them.
JUSTICE IS SERVED. Thank God. Joyce and Jason sentenced. Jason got two years. Paulette and Jamon is waiting for there turn. Yes miss Paulette now you pleaded guilty. Have fun at the women's prison. Even the dead in their graves that you rob will be rejoycing. Thank you to the FBI. Great job. THANK YOU AMERICA, JUSTICE FOR ALL. I didn't make this up. Go to Lohud.com.
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Dr. Kluane Spake Hub Author 4 years ago
I've had to learn the hard way how to overcome betrayal. Hopefully, this article will help you!